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Programme code · DV-EIS-11

Emotional Intelligence in Guest Service

Apply emotional intelligence to deliver better guest experiences.

Duration: 2 daysFormat: In-person · Live online · In-house at your propertyPricing & dates on requestRegister your interest

Introduction

Emotional intelligence — the ability to recognise and manage emotions in oneself and others — is one of the strongest predictors of success in service roles. The Emotional Intelligence in Guest Service programme develops the self-awareness, empathy, and self-control that help staff connect with guests and handle pressure with composure. It covers the core elements of emotional intelligence, reading guest emotions, managing one's own responses, and applying these skills to complaints and high-pressure moments. Participants learn how emotional intelligence improves guest satisfaction, teamwork, and personal resilience.

Targeted Groups

This programme is designed for:

  • Front-line and guest-facing staff
  • Guest-relations and complaints-handling staff
  • Supervisors and team leaders
  • Reservations and contact-centre staff
  • Staff working in high-pressure service roles
  • Teams seeking stronger guest connection
  • Experienced staff developing their soft skills
  • Anyone who interacts with guests or colleagues

Course Objectives

By the end of the programme, participants will be able to:

  • Explain the core elements of emotional intelligence
  • Assess and develop personal self-awareness
  • Manage your own emotions and reactions
  • Recognise and respond to guests' emotions
  • Build empathy and rapport with guests
  • Stay composed in high-pressure situations
  • Use emotional intelligence to handle complaints
  • Communicate with sensitivity and tact
  • Strengthen relationships within the team
  • Build personal resilience and reduce stress
  • Adapt your approach to different guests
  • Apply emotional intelligence in daily service

Targeted Competencies

Participants will develop the following competencies:

  • Self-awareness
  • Self-regulation
  • Empathy
  • Social awareness
  • Relationship management
  • Emotional resilience
  • Active listening
  • Sensitive communication
  • Composure under pressure
  • Adaptability

Studying Scenarios

Participants build skills through scenarios such as:

  • Reading a guest's mood and responding appropriately
  • Managing your own frustration during a busy shift
  • Calming an emotional or upset guest
  • Handling a complaint with empathy and composure
  • Supporting a colleague under stress
  • Adapting your approach to a reserved guest
  • Recovering composure after a difficult interaction

Course Content

Unit 1: Foundations of Emotional Intelligence

  • What emotional intelligence is and why it matters
  • The core elements of emotional intelligence
  • Emotional intelligence in service roles
  • The link between emotions and guest experience
  • Assessing your own emotional intelligence
  • The business case for emotional intelligence

Unit 2: Self-Awareness and Self-Management

  • Recognising your own emotions and triggers
  • Managing emotional reactions
  • Staying calm under pressure
  • Responding rather than reacting
  • Managing stress and energy
  • Building emotional self-control over time

Unit 3: Empathy and Understanding Guests

  • Reading guests' emotions and cues
  • Practising genuine empathy
  • Building rapport and trust quickly
  • Cultural awareness and sensitivity
  • Adapting to different emotional needs
  • Seeing the experience from the guest's view

Unit 4: Emotional Intelligence in Complaints and Pressure

  • Staying composed during complaints
  • Defusing emotional situations
  • Empathy as a recovery tool
  • Managing difficult and emotional guests
  • Protecting your own wellbeing under pressure
  • Turning tense moments into positive outcomes

Unit 5: Relationships and Continuous Growth

  • Building strong relationships with guests and colleagues
  • Using emotional intelligence in teamwork
  • Communicating with sensitivity and tact
  • Giving and receiving feedback well
  • Developing resilience over time
  • Making emotional intelligence a daily habit

Final Insights & Key Takeaways

Emotional intelligence helps service professionals connect with guests, stay composed under pressure, and recover difficult situations with empathy. By developing self-awareness, self-management, and empathy, participants can improve guest satisfaction, strengthen teamwork, and build lasting personal resilience.

Format & Logistics

Every programme can be delivered in-house at your property, as a private session for your team, or live online, and tailored in length and content to your needs. Pricing and dates are arranged on request.

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